This isn’t a test. There are no check boxes that you missed. No arbitrary line that you have already crossed. No way to fail this. This isn’t based on who is smarter and who has more value. This idea is a dangerous illusion. This isn’t a race. There isn’t a starting gate. There isn’t a finish line. There isn’t a prize for going faster, better, longer. There is no where to get to. Exiting the race may mean you enjoy this day a whole lot more. This isn’t a game. There are no other competitors that you need to beat. No made up rules by someone who didn’t have your best interest at heart. No way to lose. Even not showing up doesn’t mean you lose. This isn’t a game at all. This isn’t a dress rehearsal. You don’t need to spend your time looking good and acting normal. You don’t need to look like you are the best one for the position. Just being who you are, isn’t easy, but it guarantees this isn’t a dress rehearsal that you can fail. You already got the gig, the one for which you are perfect, your own life. This isn’t a fight. There is no one to beat up. There is no referee calling the shots. There is nothing to win. That doesn’t mean there aren’t causes to defend. Don’t enter the battlefield with bravado and promises of doom and dread. It has never turned out well for us in the end. Start singing with your whole heart about this. There is no winner if anyone loses. We know this. The alternative is inherent in releasing the sword wielding mentality. Reclaim your consciousness from the over-culture. Today would not be too soon. Stop trying to get ahead since it is costing you everything. Is it time for a leap of faith, without an objective to get ahead? Who would you be being without objectives and goals to define your invented reality? Maybe an even better idea would arise. You never know. Yes, we will die anyway. Turns out that isn’t the point. We might end up living instead of racing, pretending, fighting. That sounds lovely, doesn’t it. Where is that freedom…we know it exists. We never stop looking, yet it is closer than we thought. Don’t make a bucket list. There is no list. There is loving what you love and in that, everything. What if we missed the point? Is there a point? We keep making up new stories to justify the cruelty. Yet as cruel as we are to ourselves, we should start right. here. This isn’t what we once thought. Changing the contextual metaphors may be one of the most important decisions of our lives.
Shiloh Sophia
The word overculture is from Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estes: “I coined the word Overculture many years ago to speak about the grid that the overculture slams down or sometimes subversively dreams down over the spirits and souls of human beings… in order to diminish them, set them into matchboxes, exhort them to behave, or else.”
“If you want to change the world, you have to change the metaphor.” ~ Joseph Campbell |
Exactly what was needed this morning. Thank you for the turn-on to this poet!